As a Japanese student, one of the differences I often feel in America is that there are many adapted children compared to my country. In Japan, I hardly ever hear about adapted children. However, I realized that America has more complicated family situation. Adapted children system is good thing at the same time because that gurantees rights of women who is having hard time being pregnant because of their body problems and so on.
I have some examples for this. One of my friends is adapted when she was a little. She said she does not even remember the real parents. However, it seems like she was raised with so much affection from her parents who adapted her. I know some parents who adapted children even from overseas such as China and Russia. I respect people who adapt chidren because I cannot believe I will accept other children as part of my family in the future. However, I also consider I do want to have children when I get married. I will be sad if I cannot be pregnant, so I would like to adapt children at that time.
I think this is great thing because it guarantees both women's rights as having children and children's rights as having parents. There are still many children who do not have parents and have so many problems such as luck of education and eating habits. I hope adapting children will be common in many countries in the world so that guarantees rights of women and children.
Adoption is a great thing, it also allows people to be proactive in giving children a better life. It does not surprise me that Japan does not seem to have many people who adopt. The people that I do know that are from Japan tell me that family is important. This means that the blood line is the most important. Japan has had many disasters lately but also seems to be booming so maybe adoption will increase in japan. I am glad you are considering adoption. A lot of people only want to have a child if it is their creation. I want to have children just as you do and I would also consider adoption. If I financially was stable I would definitely adopt. One of the setbacks is adoption is so expensive, but is definitely something I would be willing to do.
ReplyDeleteIn many of the cases the adopted children are suffering the lack of love and interest from the adopted parents.
ReplyDeleteDiane Colosimo
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